Father is a man!*

During one of the gatherings of priests and laypeople, I found myself standing in line for lunch, surrounded by the lively chatter of the community. Behind me was a group of young girls, their laughter and playful banter filling the air. Suddenly, their noise faded into silence as they recognized me. One girl, with wide eyes, exclaimed, "Ay, si father pala. Akala ko tao!" (literally: "Oh, it's Father; I thought a human person"). This moment struck me, prompting an inner reflection: "Am I not one of you?" I, too, am a human being, navigating the same world as they are. Yet, I understood that in her innocent remark, she was expressing the unique distinction society often places on priests, elevating them beyond the ordinary.

This experience reminded me of a lesson from our professor, Bishop Ted Bacani. He recounted how, before the implementation of Vatican II, priests were expected to wear the cassock or habit at all times. However, with the Council's changes, he commissioned a tailor to make him five clerical polos, which symbolized a different pastoral image for the clergy. One day, as the chaplain of the school, he ventured into his ministry wearing one of these polos instead of his usual cassock. This choice was not merely a matter of attire; it represented a shift in how the clergy could relate to the laity.

The impact of this shift was evident when, unexpectedly, a young girl burst into tears and rushed home. She told her mother, "Mama, mama... si father pala ay lalaki!" (literally, "Mama, mama, Father is a man!") This reaction highlights a profound truth: for her, a priest transcended the usual categories of gender; he was not simply a man but someone set apart, consecrated, by his vocation. Indeed, a father is a man, but more importantly, he is a man of God, called to a purpose.

As priests, we hold a unique position of respect within the community, recognized as shepherds of God's flock. Yet, this role carries with it a tremendous responsibility that must lead us to humility. We are reminded that our ministry is not about authority or status; rather, it is about service, love, and sacrifice. We must strive to live authentically, ensuring that we do not fail the laity in our calling, and above all, our Almighty God. Our lives should reflect the holiness of the One who called us, inspiring others to seek a deeper relationship with God.

I want to underscore a vital message: all of us, whether priest or lay faithful, are called to be holy. Holiness is not the exclusive domain of the clergy; it is a universal call for every believer. Before his passing, Blessed Pope John Paul II canonized numerous laypeople, affirming that holiness is attainable for all. This act serves as a powerful reminder that each of us can draw closer to God and that we all have the opportunity to become saints.

In this shared journey toward holiness, we must support one another, recognizing that our collective commitment to faith can transform our communities. Let us strive together, embracing our unique roles while celebrating our common identity as children of God, called to reflect His love and grace in the world.